1596, Edmund Spenser, The Faerie Queene, VI.6:Yet were her words and lookes but false and fayned, To some hid end to make more easie way, Or to allure such fondlings whom she trayned Into her trap ….
1847, Emily Brontë, Wuthering Heights, Vol. I, ch. 10:'How can you say I am harsh, you naughty fondling?' cried the mistress, amazed at the unreasonable assertion.
A pet or person who is fondled; someone who is much loved.